Do you have one of those “lucky” friends that seems to navigate the dating scene without much effort? Research proves that these “lucky” people are actually folks who generate their own good fortune by following some basic principles. Want to become more like that lucky friend of yours? Commit to practicing each of the following on a regular basis:
1. Notice and create opportunities. For example: Rather than going to that same Starbucks every morning for your skinny latte, why not search the net for some local coffee shops you have yet to try? The more you expose yourself to new places, the more opportunities you will create for chance meetings.
3. Expect positive outcomes in order to create self-fulfilling prophecies. For example: When you’re getting ready for your first date with that cutie you’ve been eyeing all semester, envision yourselves laughing and enjoying each other’s company. As the saying goes: “I’ll see it when I’ll believe it.”
Best of Luck,
Dr. Tami Kubatski, Psy.D., C.Psych.
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